As I sat on the curb in front of my apartment building, I made a plan. First, call a taxi to run to pharmacy and ATM. While waiting for the taxi, I called my friend Seth. He was in a meeting but, as usual, he was the calm, cool, voice of reason. He couldn’t give me a ride to the airport…unless I had no other option…but he would store some of my things in his home and he would deliver them to my mom on his next trip to visit his girlfriend, who was living on the East Coast. He told me it would all be fine and, because it was Seth speaking, I believed it.
I quickly made another phone call to my friend, Jason. Jason is one of those people that would do anything for a friend. Unfortunately, he was too far away to be able to get back to Denver in time for me to make my flight. I could’ve taken a taxi but, in Denver, that would’ve been a small fortune. Jason volunteered his mother to drive me to the airport. I’d only met her once before and it had been a brief encounter. He called her and told her my situation and she didn’t hesitate. She got in her car and was on her way to pick me up within a couple of minutes. I guess we can see where Jason gets it from, huh?!
Crisis averted!
My best friend was planning to move with me and I was supposed to pick her up on the way to the airport. Around 5am I had spoken with her and she didn’t seem like she still wanted to move. She hadn’t even packed and wasn’t in her home at the time. When I tried calling her to tell her of the change of plans regarding getting to the airport, she didn’t answer the phone. I left several messages, but she didn’t return my calls. Very strange…
I went upstairs to start bringing down all of my luggage…1o pieces in all, ranging in size from small carry-on bags to a few pieces of rolling luggage that would hold everything you could possibly need for a 3-month trip. At least I could live in my apartment-sized luggage if I didn’t find a home! When I was walking out the door, on one of my trips downstairs, my friends arrived to finish moving out the things I wouldn’t be taking with me. They were kind enough to bring breakfast too! When I told them about the night I’d had and how the morning was starting off, they offered to clean my apartment so I’d get SOME of my security deposit back. They also said they would take some things to Seth’s for safe-keeping. Another crisis averted! Things were looking up!
Jason’s mother arrived within 30 minutes of my frenzied call for help. We quickly loaded up her car, said a hurried goodbye to the friends tending to my apartment, and we were off. Along the way, I kept trying to phone my best friend, but to no avail. Certainly she had received the messages by now.
I arrived at the airport and put all of my luggage on 2 carts and wheeled it inside. I was still having the uncontrollable crying bouts, but that probably was to my advantage at that particular moment. When I was checking in for my flight, the agent only charged me for a couple of extra bags….even though I was only allowed 3 free bags! He obviously felt sorry for me, but he was also happy for me when he learned I was moving to Cancun.
After I got checked in, I called my mom, Seth, and some other friends to let them know what was going on. I tried calling my best friend again, but still no answer. She didn’t check in for the flight either. A no-show on Cancun Moving Day. Who would be that silly?! My friend, apparently. She’d always been pretty flaky, but I never saw that coming.
In the gate area, I was still on my phone and still crying enough to make people stare. When I boarded the plane, I said goodbye to my mom and turned off my cell phone. On the plane, I was still crying, I think. I was on my way though and that helped me relax. I could finally breathe. I think I fell asleep as soon as I sat down. I woke when the flight attendants served lunch. I had ignored eating for days and now I was finally forced to relax and eat. I managed to eat all of my icky airline food and went back to sleep. I slept the rest of the way to Cancun. I woke with just enough time to put on makeup and attempt to look cute. My eyes were so swollen that it was hard to disguise it with makeup, but I did my best because I was going to need every weapon in my arsenal to get out of paying tons of money to the Customs’ Agents. I know my mom is reading this and wondering if I was wearing a low-cut blouse. She knows this is one of my tricks when I need men to do things for me and, of course, the answer is yes!
I got off the plane with a smile on my face. I was home! It was hot and Immigration was miserable, but I was still concerned about Customs. I had my work visa so that required me to fill out a different form than a tourist, but it was simple enough and I was on my way in no time. Once I claimed all 10 pieces of luggage, I wrangled it all onto 2 luggage carts and made my way to the traffic light at the Customs checkpoint. I pushed the button…green…but with that many bags, I still had to see an agent in a tiny little office. No good could come from that. I was envisioning all the money I was about to pay when an airline employee I’d met earlier in the week, magically appeared. I met him when I was returning to Denver from my weekend trip to Cancun. He knew I was moving to Cancun and had requested a gift. I brought chocolates for him, but his co-workers thought he had left for the day. Wrong! He had been just outside the Customs area waiting for me to arrive! He accompanied me to the scary little Customs office (only scary because I knew they wanted lots of money) and waited for the agent to return.
When the Customs agent returned, he didn’t look very happy to see me, or my mound of luggage. Since my Spanish was little more than the most basic of ‘Basic Spanish’, the airline employee spoke for me. He told the agent what I had in my bags and that I was moving here and assured him I would buy all my things in Mexico from that moment on. The agent scolded me for a minute and then let me go without having to pay one single peso!! All the flirting in the world would not have gotten me totally off the hook so I am forever grateful to Alex from Suntrips! If it hadn’t been for him, and the fact that it was time for the Customs agent to go to lunch, I’d probably still be standing there forking over money to Customs!
Alex helped me cart all of my bags out to the hotel shuttle. While the bags were being loaded, impatient vacationers were yelling for me to get in so we could be on our way. I told them my bags were being loaded and we weren’t leaving without them…and continued chatting with my new friends. After about 10 minutes, all the bags were strategically placed in the luggage area of the van, I bid farewell to Alex, and got in the van. A short time later, I arrived at the Miramar Mision. A bellman carried all of my bags up the stairs to the lobby. I was looking forward to calling my friends and having a relaxing evening. I was home!
Nope, it couldn’t be THAT easy! When it was my turn to check in, the front desk clerk told me the hotel was over-booked and I was being walked to another hotel. What else could possibly go wrong on this day?! I couldn’t argue because there were no rooms to be had. I insisted they give me one of their nicer rooms when I returned the next day, and then had the bellman lug all my things back down the stairs and put them into a taxi.
A short time later, I arrived at the Caribbean Princess…a hotel that DID have rooms available and I was able to relax! I made some phone calls, took a shower, and visited with a friend. After that, I got into bed and slept the whole night! (Something I hadn’t been able to do in quite a while!) I woke in time to check out and move back to the Miramar Mision. Keeping with his word, the front desk clerk gave me an oceanfront room. That was my first home in Cancun!
I spent the first few days as a tourist. You know the drill…..sleeping late, lounging by the pool, napping, and partying like a rock star. It was SO nice to see the jets flying over the hotel zone and knowing I never had to leave if I didn’t want to! After a couple of days of this (the relaxing life I was meant to lead!) the reality of being homeless started to set in and I got back to apartment hunting. I looked at many apartments, but none were in my price range now that I would be living alone. Finally, on Day 6, I had a couple of friends take me out to walk around neighborhoods and look for apartments for rent. Within 30 minutes we found a great apartment and it was in my price range! It was in a great neighborhood…convenient to everything and safe. Later that evening, I had Ivan go look at it with me to make sure I wasn’t just taking the place because I was desperate. He loved it too and we met with the landlord. I moved in the next morning and then I was finally at home in Cancun.
To be continued…..